Kids need a safe, secure environment with adults who love and care for them to build strong self-esteem. Not only do you need to show your children you love them, but you also need to tell them. Here are 25 loving words and phrases to say to your children to encourage them.
- I love you! It’s the simplest thing to say, but it’s one of the most powerful statements a person can say!
- I’m proud of you. This should be used often, especially when children overcome an obstacle in their young lives. It encourages them to strive to do their best.
- You did great! Whatever it is, let them see your admiration for their effort.
- I’m glad I’m your [mom, dad]! Saying this helps boost your child’s self-esteem and lets her know she’s loved.
- I adore you. This uplifting and straightforward phrase is sure to bring a smile to your child’s face.
- You’re the apple of my eye. What could be more pleasing than that?
- Thank you! This simple statement shows appreciation for your child’s help.
- I couldn’t imagine life without you! This one says they mean the world to you.
- You’re the best daughter (son) ever! Tell them what a great kid you think they are.
- I admire your hard work. Encourages your child to continue to do his best and shows that you notice.
- I “heart” you. Saying phrases in fun ways shows your child you can both be silly together. Try this as a fun lunch box note.
- I care for you. Let your child know you care for and love her. She can never hear it enough.
- I cherish you! Children are a special blessing. Let them know.
- My day isn’t complete without a hug from you. Said while giving a bear hug.
- I enjoy spending time with you. Plan a family night or a “date night” and let them know how much you enjoyed their company when it’s over.
- You make life fun. It lets your kids know you’re happy they’re yours.
- Talk to them. Ask about their day and tell them about yours. Let your kids know that your favorite time of the day is the time you spend with them.
- Make them laugh. Tickle their feet and say, “I just wanted you to see how I feel when I think about how much I love you.”
- Sing You Are My Sunshine. You’ll both get a big laugh out of it, and your child will know you love him.
- Tell them to be careful. Children need to know you’re concerned for their safety and well-being. Loving someone means you care what happens to them, and children need to hear it.
- You’re a treasure! It may seem silly, but telling your kids you value them means you love them. Let them know they are more important than any material possession, and you treasure them.
- ILY. Text language for “I Love You.” It’s good to speak the kids’ lingo once in a while. You can always send text messages to your kids if they have a phone throughout the day.
- U R GR8T. More text language. Translation. “You’re great!”
- Give them a hug and a kiss. Tell them, “I needed that!”
- I love you more every day! You can never tell your children you love them enough. It helps to build self-confidence and self-esteem and gives them a sense of self-worth. Tell them you love them again and again.
Children want simple things. They want to be loved, appreciated and cared for. You can show your children you love them, not only through actions but also by saying what they need to hear. Taking the time to voice your love builds strong, self-confident kids who know how to express their love to others.